Bitterness... Sour... Salty...

It is not easy to write about pains, heartaches, sourgrappings, because it harps emotion.  I can say, one should be in that same situation or simply just to empathize to a friend or relatives.

Emotions are hard to express thru writings (for some maybe), but when people read quotes or stories they can easily relate to it.

More and more individuals, young generations or even the old ones are still vulnerable to pain... none of us is exempted!  But the next big step is how to  conquer the pain or simply forgetting the hurtful memories... i.e. of course losing someone you love, letting go of someone you shared your life with, etc.

A lot will simply say "it's easy to move on" well in fact it all depends...

• how the individual will face the reality; 
• one's strength, outlook, and the capacity to bear the pains; and lastly;
• someone who can help them in comforting the situation.

There is no secret how to deal with pain.

If you know someone who are in pain...  all I can say is simply to EMPATHIZE... LISTEN with an open heart and mind... and probably GENTLY speak the words of wisdom.

-hqq2016

6:23pm/7.13.2016

Bitterness... Sourgrapping... Pains.

(Life is not always sweet... sometimes it is bitter, salty and sour)

I.      Commitment?

You are saying that I am afraid of commitment? What commitment do you want from me? Commitment to:

·         follow whatever you want me to do?

·         become your slave?

·         believe you whatever you say?

·         be your puppet for the rest of my life?

·         love you and forget myself?

I have done nothing bad against you or to your family to deserve this.  I don’t need treatment like this.  I don’t want to be fooled again… not for the rest of my life.

The level of my understanding may not that deep

But I have a heart to feel and gets hurt. 

The level of my intellect may not be as good as you are

But I have a heart to understand when to stop and what is the limit.

II.   Love?

Is this the kind of love you are saying?

Is this the kind of love you showed?

Is this the kind of love you want me to believe?

You said you love me.

You can’t live without me.

You adore me.

But you never trust me:

·         that I will understand your situation

·         that I will understand my relationship with you

·         that I will understand who you are

You kept secrets.

You keep repeating the same lies.

You hurt me.

I tried to be patient

I tried to be good

I tried to be honest

I tried to be loyal

You love me or you only love yourself?

·         You know in your heart that I am just a spare

·         You know in your heart that I am just your reserve

·         You know in your heart that I am here to love you

·         You know in your heart that I just a part of your dream

You said

·         I am the air that you breathe

·         I am the blood in your body

·         I am the love of your life

These are all lies

These are all make-believe

These are all fantasies.

Don't be Bitter... Sour... Salty... Hang on! Life is good!

-hqq2016